Step 2:B Form My significant relationship with : What did I not get from the relationship that was essential for me? What were the things I thought I could control about the relationship? What were the painful experiences and feelings that I experienced in this relationship? What were the limitations of the relationship? What did I learn from the relationship? Why is letting go of the pain from this past relationship the best thing for me? What is more important to me than holding onto the pain from this past relationship? Do I need to forgive this person for the harm he or she caused me?