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I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship] My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways: We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions] My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you] I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner] My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together] [554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including: My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because: His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

1) Through open communication
2) Stays true to what he is feeling (whether it’s happiness or sadness) and is able to express those feelings to me in a confident way, non-defensive way
3) Wants to talk things through
4) Can express himself by staying calm
5) Makes an effort to compliment me

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

He is independent and his interests and hobbies are important to him. While he is okay with doing his own thing, it is important to him to have me share in or be a part of his interests. So for example: he’ll suggest at times having us doing something together. However, if he knows that I am not interested in that particular activity or hobby – he is okay with doing it on his own. If he feels that his interests or activities begin interfering with our relationship, he will always make sure to prioritize our relationship needs over his interest (ie. he won’t plan a back packing trip every weekend – even though he loves doing that – if it means it is impacting our time together).

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

We openly discuss when something is bothering us. So if there is a problem, before letting it escalate or fester for too long, we make sure to speak up and say that something is bothering us. If one of us approaches the other, when something is bothering us, we make sure to not get defensive but listen with an open mind. We sympathize with where one another is coming from and take time to talk through the problem or issue to a point where we feel its been resolved or dealt with. We don’t go to sleep upset or mad at one another.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

He supports me in my career and pushes and encourages me to pursue my dreams and goals. He loves that I am getting a PhD and is always there for me when I am feeling insecure, unsure or upset about my work. He reminds me why I am doing it and that I can do it.

In general when I think of support – I think of someone that just has your back always. So no matter what is happening, whether it’s with relationships, career, or health – my partner is there for me mentally, emotionally, financially and physically. It feels like we are a true team.

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

He is my back bone and reminds me through his actions and words how much he loves and cares for me. I feel safe with him because he passes no judgements on what I say or do. I feel completely myself and 100% comfortable just being with him. I feel safe because there is a feeling of calmness and easiness in the relationship (ie. there are no games). He is patient with me.

I feel happy, because I feel like we are in a true partnership and I know he is there for me whenever I need him. I feel happy, because I enjoy spending time with him whether its a fancy dinner or just watching a movie at home.

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

Very much in-tuned with yoga and meditation practices – or similar philosophy. My partner’s beliefs include:
1) Being able to accept situations as they come
2) Looking for the positives or lessons in why things happen
3) Being kind to others
4) Being self-aware and in-tuned with his needs, feelings and those of others

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

1) Teaching
2) Art
3) Books
4) Theater
5) Movies
6) Life/spirituality
7) Cultures/backgrounds

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

He is physically fit and healthy. He works out on a regular basis and follows an overall healthy diet. He is taller than me (has a sense of confidence when he walks into a room/carries himself with a sense of confidence). He values his appearance (ie. dresses well, takes time to make sure he is put together).

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

He can communicate along with showing me

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

We work together sharing out interest and also having personal spacec

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

Talking them out without getting upset and understanding where each of us is coming from

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

Just being there when I’m upset or encourage me and I can express myself freely without it coming back at me

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

I know he is always there

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

Makes things so much easier

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

Having someone that enjoys museums and can talk to you about it and finds fun things like that to do

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

Excercise daily and eats well

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

Openly and honestly – he shares the good, the bad and the indifferent.

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

He takes the time for him (his “me” time) to stay grounded with time for himself, friends and hobbies, and also makes time to connect with me whether in person, text, e-mail or phone. He is good with time management and setting priorities.

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

We stay connected. We are able to say what is great about each other and what we struggle with, without undue drama. If we have the need for the occasional more lively discussion, we hold hands or in some way physically remain touching so as not to detach emotionally from each other. We value our collective and individual needs and wants and reprioritize accordingly – in a mutual give/take manner.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

When I’m really irritated with him, he apologizes (genuinely) and just holds me for a few minutes. He cares enough to stay connected via the occasional text (or whatever form of communication) to let me know he’s thinking about me, upcoming plans, things that come up during the day. He lets me have “me time” and time alone with my family/friends at times. He is fiscally responsible so I don’t have to do that for both of us.

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

I know he cares about me; that he respects me. He is honest about his needs/wants and is able to express them even if he knows it’s not necessarily what I want – we can compromise, talk things out and both leave feeling good about the situation. I know he is committed to an exclusive and monogamous relationship with me; I don’t have to worry about that.

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

in line with her heart and soul. It may not be what my spiritual beliefs are necessarily, but they are not polar opposites (no Satanism, cults, extreme religions, etc.) that are not in line with my morals or harmful in any way.

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

a wide variety of topics / interests / curiosities. I love that he values being with an intelligent woman who is an equal in the partnership and we can both hold our own in a conversation.

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

a reflection of the fact that he cares about himself and takes care of himself. He’s happy, healthy and good looking. He lights up when he sees me and is never shy with a smile or a public display of affection.

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

Touching me, talking to me

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

he looks forward to our time together and helps plan activities or surprises me, he reserves or makes time in his schedule as our relationship is a high priority, he has his own interests and respects mine but enjoys opportunities to share each others interests

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

conversation and team-building, we trust each other and are not threatened by each others successes

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

pitching in when I am over-busy, considering my hopes, dreams and needs when he makes a decision or plans ahead

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

I can trust him to listen non-judgmentally, and I know he loves me despite my flaws

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

open-minded and non-judgmental, he is curious about the spiritual beliefs of others but not easily persuaded, he believes in kindness, generosity and helping the less-fortunate

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

arts/language/culture/anthropology, some politics/economics/science/history

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

healthy, strong and vibrant

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

He loves affectionate touching – cuddles, hugs, holding hands
He makes eye contact
He is able to voice his feelings – is emotionally intelligent and mature
He likes to surprise me or give me gifts (like flowers, etc)

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

He has his own hobbies that he continues to do without the expectation that I’ll join him.
He does not always put his hobbies before me, but there is a healthy balance.

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

He listens to my side and I listen to his. We try to figure out solutions together. If it’s beyond a compromise, we go to see a third party to help us figure out our needs.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

He supports my goals, my emotional ups and downs, my desires, and shares in my joys.
He is a good role model for my daughter
He is a good communicator

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

I feel like he isn’t going to run away at the first sign of trouble
I feel like he is emotionally available and committed

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

He believes in karma and something bigger than our small lives.
He knows how to tap into the universe

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

He is intelligent – can banter with me on my level of vocabulary
He’s curious and knows things that I don’t know
It’s important to me because I’m always learning and curious and would love to talk to someone about random things that are interesting.

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

He is healthy – he works out, but is not rabid or obsessed about it. He maintains good hygiene. He does not have to be super muscular or ripped but strong enough to throw me around a bit. Shorter than 6′, not skinny/slender.

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship] My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways: We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions] My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you] I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner] My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together] [554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including: My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because: His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship] My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways: We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions] My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you] I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner] My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together] [554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including: My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because: His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

I want someone who wants to be with me and shows it. I don’t want to be someone’s last great sexual adventure. I am looking for someone who wants to get to know me, who shares his dreams, what he is proud of, what he wishes he had done differently with me. I want him to know what I am proud of and be proud of me and my accomplishments. I think it is super weird to be meeting people at 60 We are in the final quarter. It is like gee so much has already happened what is left for us to do. I want someone who doesn’t tell me a million times how important physical intimacy is to them. I know physical intimacy is important. And I know my love language is spending quality time together and being appreciated. So physical intimacy is not my top love language and for it to happen for me it is usually the last piece of the puzzle. The right guy will like to cook with me and take walks with me ad talk about his day with me.

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

He doesn’t spend 90% of his time on his interests and hobbies. I don’t know what a good percentage is and I imagine it will go up and down. The key things for me are daily communication, a feeling of connection and a feeling of being included. If the guy loves golf — I will give it a try. If I am just lousy at it I would like to think instead of playing everyday in the summer or the good weather he might balance it out so he does it three times a week when I am doing something else. If he is successful he is probably a workaholic. He will recognize this and give it a rest. I will appreciate his work but I will want his attention at least one day a week to do something like wander around downtown, or go to three movies in a row.

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

He understands the importance of being heard and being congruent. He wants to be heard and he knows how to listen. He knows I want to be heard. To be heard is to be seen. To not be heard is to be invisible and not to feel important.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

If he doesn’t see me he calls me. He tells me how he is feeling or how his day went. He wants to know how my day went. We spend time together reconnecting everyday. I always remember a friend in college saying her parents always went to bed at the same time — hopefully most of the time we will go to bed at the same time. We will make each other surprises and notes. When I am angry at myself he will know it is not about him.

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

He likes to be with me. We laugh, we do fun things together, we talk about books. we talk about our challenges. He is willing to have me say I am sorry and he forgives me. He cares enough to listen. He cares enough to take care of me if I need it, I will care enough to take care of him. There is total trust. I know he wouldn’t go behind my back. He thinks I am pretty the way I am with or without makeup and he tells me.

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

Similar to mine. We both believe in leaving the planet a better place. We both believe in karma. We both believe in the golden rule. We both believe there is spiritual energy, and connection and that we are part of something bigger than ourselves. No matter how successful he is he is human. We are human.

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

I love that together we stimulate the other person’s growth and that we are willing to listen to what the other is trying to figure out. A lot of the time I think out loud. It means I am trying to figure something out but I don’t have the answer yet. I want my partner’s thoughts but I don’t want him trying to give me what to think or trying to solve a problem. I want him to figure it out with me.

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

I am super excited if my partner is physically appealing. At least I want him to be youthful for his age and willing to put effort into working out and eating right. I hope his health is good but I know health can change at any time. But as long as you are trying than that is all you can do. You can’t control what happened to you in the past or what happens to you in the present but only how you deal with it. I am hopeful my partner will appreciate the health struggles I have had.

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

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We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

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My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

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I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

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My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

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My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

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His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

My partner shows and is open on what she is feeling. I want to know when she is happy, sad, excited. I want her to be honest with me. If there is something I am doing to cause issues or something that I do that bothers her I want her to feel like she can be open with me. I want her to feel comfortable with me.

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

I am good with my partner either working or staying at home with children. I want her to be able to share her interests with me (but am ok with her having her alone time to pursue her dreams). I just want to be a part of it all. I want to make a life together.

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

Be straightforward and honest. Sometimes we have to compromise but look to see how we can make the situation better.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

She is there for me in the good times and bad times. I want to feel comfortable to confide in her about anything in my life. I want her to be my best friend. I want her to be encouraging and help make me the best version of myself. I want her to be committed.

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

Kind, Genuine, Passionate, Excitement for Life, Gets along with others, wants to have a family, enjoys the simple things in life. Can see the good in peoples. Wants to be the best version of herself. Has a strong faith.

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

Have a sincere belief in God

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

Passion for helping others
Ability to have open conversation about any topic
Ability to look at other point of views

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

Enjoys the outdoors, working out exercising within reason.

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

I love that my partner expresses emotions with words, even if it’s lots of words. They don’t get silent and sullen and disappear. They know that the way through just about anything is to talk about it. This is very important to me. My partner is not the type of person to use passive aggression or silence to punish their partner for something they didn’t like or feel uncomfortable about. My partner has command of language and insight around their own patterns of behavior. I’d much rather here “I’m in a mood at the moment, it’s not about you, can we talk in an hour or so?” than many of the alternatives.

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

My partner has stuff he likes to do, or wants to do. He doesn’t rely on me to be entertained. He doesn’t expect me to like all the stuff he likes. He wants to find time to hang out with me as much as he wants to find time to do the other activities he likes. He’s not going to be hugely upset if something we want to do together ‘wins’ over something he tends to do alone once in a while.

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

We do NOT let it fester. This drives me crazy. We at least agree to let each other know something is up (even if we’re not quite ready to talk about it) as immediately as possible, so that we don’t inadvertently punish the other person by getting distant. We agree to have some kind of safe way to communicate this using words so that the other isn’t left to wonder what’s up and if it’s their fault or they are going to get the brunt of a built up issue later.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

My partner gets a kick out of talking about what I”m up to, work wise, with the animals, with my creativity, and the same holds for me. My partner likes to talk to me and hang out with me. My partner is happy about my successes and feels proud to be with me when he hears about them, not resentful or jealous or needing to defend his own accomplishments.

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

He loves animals. He is very liberal and generous. He’s not heavily into any kind of organized religion. He loves having good friends.

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

Our beliefs are centered on openness and kindness.

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

Books and movies, ‘deep’ conversations about all sorts of things.

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

He takes the responsibility to take care of himself–not necessarily an athlete but healthy. He doesn’t smoke, he doesn’t drink a lot, he doesn’t get drunk, he doesn’t get high (at least not often). He’s not interested in going out late, at least not often. That works for me because I do not want to end up taking care of someone other than in balanced ways that work for both of us (the way I take care of friends, but they don’t demand things of me or depend on me for their lives and patterns).

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

shares things they are excited about, celebrates together, isn’t over-reactive in negative emotions, willing to listen when i have hard times, generally positive & even keeled. makes me feel calm and balanced, helps me think through problems, makes me feel heard, loved and happy. shares challenges they are having. shares their passions and tries to understand mine. supports me to become my best self and i do the same for them 🙂

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

some times together, some times with friends together, some times with friends on our own, some times on our own

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

have an open and frank conversation to share our concerns, stay calm and take each others feelings into account, understand how each processes information and give them room to be themselves.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

encouraging me to be my best self, growing together, exploring new ideas together, doing hobbies together, helping me think through hard problems, shares mundane chores equally, is an equal partner in parenting

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

open minded, kind, caring, thoughtful, adventurous, steady, family focused, honest, loyal, liberal, positive, community/friends

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

both are spiritual but not overly so, both are open minded

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

exploring new ideas, learning, trying to become better, learning new skills (eg. mountaineering), learning about topics that interest each of us, encouraging ourselves to keep growing

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

healthy lifestyle, and i am too

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life. I love that my partner expresses emotions in these ways: [describe the positive ways your partner expresses their emotions, both positive and negative emotions, in the relationship]

I love that my partner can share all of his emotions with me, I love that he feels open to be himself to be full of joy, to talk and share the good and the bad as needed. I love that he turns to our relationship when we needs emotional support and is not afraid to address the hard things as well.

My partner balances their own interests and hobbies with the relationship and me in these ways:

He talks to me about things he wants to do and works it out with our schedule to make me and our relationship a priority as well as balancing his own interests and time.

We work through our relationship issues and disagreements with compromise and communication in these ways: [describe how you work together toward solutions]

We can talk to each other in a calm, kind manner promptly when things arise. We know we are both human and sometimes can be hurtful but we trust that we deeply love each other and try not to hurt each other. I think we are both open to whatever solution makes the most sense and not attached to a particular way of resolving an issue. We are able to compromise. I want him to be able to initiate these conversations and calling me out when I have bad behavior.

My partner supports me in many ways including: [describe all the ways and situations that your partner will be there for you]

Day to day things, helping with the dogs, cleaning and cooking.
Car troubles, running errands.
Decisions about work, career, passions, life changes.

I love that my partner’s values align with mine in these ways: [describe the most important values that you want in your partner]

Good person.
Spiritually/politically aligned.
Accepts my family, ideally has a family I love.
Healthy and no drugs/addictions.

My partner’s spiritual beliefs work well with mine is these ways: [describe how your beliefs and your partner’s beliefs work together]

I want us to be committed to our individual personal growth and growth as a couple, so this feels spiritual to me. I would like to have conversations around meditation, Buddhism, etc.

[554 show=field_label] [554] I love that together we have intellectual interests in common including:

Reading and discussing things we are interested in, health, spirituality , sexuality, politics, etc.

My partners’ life style and health are as follows, and that works for me because:

He is active and interested in eating well. This works for me because I want us to have a long life together and because healthy eating/lifestyle is how I am and I don’t see myself accepting someone as they are if they don’t live that life.

His career situation is [559] which matches and supports what I’m looking for. His passions, hobbies and interests include [560] which works in our relationship. I feel [562] when I am with him. I am open to the person who will be coming into my life to be my life partner. I trust in all that is happening to bring him into my life.

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